*An abnormal sex drive for a female*?

My blood levels last year looked fine. This has become very frustrating. I am an active 23 yr old female and mother and have always had a high libido. It seemed to increase more when I started my 2 year relationship that I am still in. I am usually in the mood once a day. His libido is 50% lower then mine, literally, and has been causing arguments between us both. We live in seperate houses. Neither of us party's, if we do we're normally together, and he hasn't given me any bad thoughts of him cheating. I am the only one working. He is unemployed at the moment. Usually you hear more of the working person that is stressed having a lower libido but that is not the case here. Either his drive is lower than normal or I have too high of expectations. The arguements are making us both unhappy. He'd rather play an xbox at my house then take the time we have alone 20 min a day to have some adult fun. Long story short, I am basically looking for some advice. Looking for adult advice.