How do i break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?

The tough truth is that you can't do this without hurting him. You're going to feel guilty, but if you don't want the relationship anymore you should do what's right for you and end it. Hopefully he'll understand that it's wrong to guilt someone into staying in something they no longer want. Good luck, and chin up. Not a lot of people realize its hard to break up with someone as well as being broken up with.